he's a really nice guy. i know that now.
and very attentive too. that day even myself was not sure that i was feeling kinda slow/down.. and he was like "are you ok? x payah lah buat muka tension." and cracked a few jokes to make me laugh. (ugh but he even made a poop joke T_T)
and a bigger bully/teaser than i am. i know i can be a little childish in term of teasing people, but he's just a bigger bully than i am. seriously. suka betul mengacau orang. but that's fine since at least he also wouldn't mind when i tease him back =P
and back to being very attentive. and considerate. he knows how to limit his teasing and stopped it when i started to even slightly show annoyance. even at my pretend-pout or a slight frown, he'll be like "ok2" "yelah2" hehe encik sulung memang penyabar
and a flatterer. i think he likes me wearing pretty dress/tops. this morning i got up early and dress-up a bit more than usual, and first thing in the morning when i told him i have a training later, "training ape, ambik gambar?" X'D
but the weirdest thing is how he kept mocking my thinking that i'm tall. we were talking about tall people and short people in the office, and i blubbered that one of the things i like most about living in US is that they're generally taller/ i was considered about average-height there.. so i don't feel like such a giant. and he was like "eleh macam la dia tinggi sangat." you see. guys rarely say that to me. since i'm 167cm and the average height for Malaysian men is 165 and for women 154. by stats, i am taller than about half of Malaysian male population. well i think he's a bit taller than i am, but still, i can be considered tall for a girl.
and the even weirder thing is that i actually felt insecure of my height (though i sometimes brag about it), and like it when he was mocking my height. it made me feel like, i'm not such a giant after all =')
and this morning he suddenly consulted me on a love problem.
it started out like this:
- ape pendapat ko pasal perempuan kaya/ anak orang kaya?
- biarlah dia kaya. ape isunya?
- perangai lah.. ko rasa anak org kaya ni mcm mana
- mana boleh stereotype org in general. mmg la ade anak org kaya yg kerek, tp x semua. kena la kenal perempuan tu dulu. ape isunya sekarang ni?
- x lah, kalau aku ade suka kat sorang awek ni, die anak org kaya, pstu kerja bank, orgnya baik2, alim jugak la.
- (dlm hati ='| #$$^&**&&%$!!) ko suka, nak rapat dgn dia?
- ye, haah.
- (dlm hati X'( urghkkkkk gila direct) dia layan ko x?
- layan jugak lah. layan la aku rasa.
- (dlm hati $#%$%!!) so ape masalahnye?
- sbb die anak org kaya lah..
- (by this time dh start tawar hati) tu je? die suka ko kan..
- err ni pasal member aku sbnrnye. die cakap takut family background x sama.. n die rasa perempuan ni terlalu baik untuk dia. ko rasa?
- (%$%#$!! ckp la awal2 psl member. cit. pheww) member ko ni baik x?
- perlu ke jadi baik?
- asalkan x jahat, boleh jaga anak orang ok la (cehh mcm terer lak cakap)
- bolehhhh jaga anak orang. x jahat mcm mne tu
- haha x jahat bukan pembunuh bersiri/ perompak..
- amboi jahat benor kawan aku smpai pmbunuh bersiri
- so skrg ni perempuan tu suka x member ko ni? dah try tanya?
- tu la masalahnya. lepas dia confess, perempuan tu pergi lala-lalala~ then lps brpe hari datang balik.
- die terkejut je kot. die x jawab ke die suka ke x? sms, call, ke depan2?
- HAHAHA depan-depan la. mana gentleman sms. x, tu yg masalah tu. tp die datang balik.
- hehe mne la tau x gentleman x ckp depan2. ntah la.. maybe sebab ko ckp die mcm alim2, maybe die mmg jnis yg x nk rapat sgt dgn lelaki kot.. member ko ni dh ready/pikir nk kawin?
- dah, die ckp nk kawin next year, dgn sape je x tau lg. hahaha mcm psiko kan
- haha kalau dh ready try je la ajak perempuan tu kawin kalau dia nak. kalau x nak, boleh move on.
- oo ade eh org mcm tu, jenis yg x nk kenal sgt sblom kawin.
- lah, kan kwn ko tu dh brpe lama kenal perempuan ni?
- 6 bulan, tp tu lah, x brpe selalu sgt jumpa/call/sms. so x tau sgt perempuan ni cm mne.
- mcm mne ape
- gila mcm ko. mcm aku. *buat muka pelik*
- HAHAHA gila mcm ko aku rasa x
- so mmg ade yg jnis nk bercinta lps kawin eh.
- sape member ko ni?
- housemate aku.
- (x nk ckp nama, nk berahsia mcm aku x tau sape housemate dia konon..) JEP?
- *sengih* haah
- hah, ketawakan orang!
selesai sesi konsultasi cinta housemate, tiba-tiba:
- ko anak orang kaya?
- *terkejut* hah??
- kaya, sederhana, biasa2?
- haha sederhana..
- ko bongsu, berapa atas ko?
- tengok gaya.. mcm ramai.. belas-belas.. 15? (i think he was trying to be funny here, not knowing that figure is really close to the answer lol)
- lebih 1..
- ai, lebih nampak. 16?
- 14 lah
- 14?? betul ni?
- atas aku dh ramai besar2, so time aku dh x susah..
pastu sibuk tanya pasal kakak abang pulak..
i know you have a few younger sisters and that you love and care about,
so just remember that i have 6 living older brothers, and 6 older sisters looking out for my well-being,
feeling the same thing as you would for your younger sister.
just a friendly reminder!
(in case you ever turn out to be a jerk contrary to my current interpretation)